Lucknow:With so much busy life at times every parent gets a guilt feeling of not spending adequate time with their kids . Often we want to make them feel very special after all they are our world , Right ?? well making your child feel special and loved is actually very simple . So simple that it will surprise you . So just follow these simple steps and feel the wonder it can make …..
1: Children need a minimum of eight touches during a day to feel connected to a parent.
If they’re going through a particularly challenging time, it’s a minimum of 12 a day. This doesn’t have to be a bigdeal; it could be the straightening of a collar, a pat on the shoulder or a simple hug.
2:Each day, children need one meaningful eye-to-eye conversation with a parent.It is especially important for babies to have that eye contact, but children of all ages need us to slow down and look them in the eyes.
3. There are nine minutes during the day that have the greatest impact on a child:
:: the first three minutes right after they wake up.
:: the three minutes after they come home from school.
:: the last three minutes of the day before they go to bed.
We need to make those moments special and help our children feel loved.
These are simple, right? Nothing really earth-shattering here.
Now try this :–
1-: Whenever u feel like scolding your child, take a deep breath, or count 1-10 and then act.
2:-Let’s ask them to study their favorite subject on their own.
3:- Send them to one exam without studying at all..
4:- Remember what our kids are learning in 5th std is taught to 7th std abroad.
5:- Lets keep our kids out of unwanted competition.
6:- 80% of what kids are learning ,won’t be useful to them in future..
7:- Our kids can really afford to do whatever they want to do in future .
8:- Higher degrees don’t guaranty success and happiness..
9:- Not all the highly educated people do well professionally.
And not all those who do well professionally are the happiest ones..
10:- Kids are always in a party mood.. don’t spoil their childhood. Support and let them be what they want to be.
Follow these simple tips and change the way we look at our kids and their future . Who will not love to see the
kids beaming with love and joy .
