Arranged marriage is not a new concept in India. Over the years, a man and woman have met each other either through matrimonial websites or based on common contacts. One meeting after another, they get to know each other and then decide if they want to marry or not. One thought that does not leave even after all those meetings is the question of compatibility. And one cannot be sure of compatibility even after marriage.
Two strangers in a marital cord do not enjoy the same level of intimacy and romance to begin with and need time to get close, both emotionally and physically. Therefore, it is always a subject of mystery as to how much time these couples take before they can consummate their marriage.
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‘So, what would be the right time to get intimate with my spouse?’ – the lingering question in the minds of every newly-wed couple who’ve got hitched via an arranged marriage. The reason for this concern is simple. Things are so regimented and pre-planned in an arranged wedding that espoused couples have no idea what to do when they are left all alone. The point then arises is what’s the ‘right time’ before you get intimate with your spouse in an arranged marriage? The answer to this question is a mixed bag.
Some say ‘give it time’ while some some say ‘just go for it.’ Sexual intimacy in any marriage though – whether love or arranged – is invariable. The thing is to find that healthy time gap between the wedding and first physical encounter that will ensure maximum manifestation of the couple’s love, and of course satisfaction. Since this is how an ideal first intimate moment should be, we present to you nine tips to get intimate once you’ve tied the knot without discounting on love and mutual respect towards the partner. Who knows, you may as well get intimate quite soon after the wedding if you adhere to these tips. So hold those sheets, and let us begin!
